Look at yourself first!
As a coach we are always looking inward at what we can do to make the team better, better drills, better chemistry, better decisions. This is proper and good.
As a player, you need to do the same. Your job is to be coachable, reflective about your own play…your own touches, communication, decisions and how these can be better. So…if you are in the habit of critiquing your teammates, coaches, etc….STOP until you are yourself a perfect player. And there are none out there.
As a parent, we hope you are supportive of the team and look to help us by reinforcing these habits with your children.
That will make a family and a great team.